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Exit Strategy Day 80 of Exodus 90: A Journey Toward Freedom and Brotherhood


Exit Strategy

Day 80 of Exodus 90: A Journey Toward Freedom and Brotherhood

When life becomes overwhelming—when stress, pain, or sheer exhaustion set in—we naturally seek an exit. We want an emergency escape hatch from discomfort. The world offers plenty of quick fixes: indulgence, distraction, numbing entertainment, or worse—sin. It’s easy to justify a small indulgence here or a minor compromise there. The devil whispers, "This is too much. You deserve a break."  I mean we have all felt this temptation – more so I feel in the last 20 or so days.  

Sin offers a short-term solution, but it never truly satisfies. It’s an illusion of relief, a momentary distraction that ultimately deepens the void. The real challenge is resisting the urge to break away and instead pressing deeper into the discomfort (or as we have been saying – embracing the suck), knowing that true transformation is happening within.

Every day, even though I sometimes hear “are we there yet,” coming from the back seat of my brain, I keep remembering that this Exodus Journey is a battle, an adventure, and an invitation into something far greater than ourselves.  While these past 80 days have pretty much sucked, I can’t tell you how much I have enjoyed them.  We have all embraced the suck together and become a more cohesive group of brothers.    

So what’s next? What’s our exit strategy coming out of Exodus? 

I look forward to discussing this with all of you on Sunday, but as we think about it, how do we combat boredom, distraction, and the temptation to escape moving forward? We go back to the fundamentals. Just like in football, success isn’t about flashy plays (well unless you’re running Snow Globe)—it’s about executing the basics with discipline and consistency:

  1. Prayer and Meditation – Spending quiet time with God, reflecting on His word, and silencing the noise of the world grounds us.
  2. Concrete Resolutions – Making small, specific commitments to holiness keeps us on track.
  3. Examination of Conscience – Taking time to reflect on our failures and victories ensures we continue growing.
  4. Avoiding Distractions – Identifying and removing the small temptations that pull us away from God helps us remain focused.

Over the past 80 days, the chaos has slowed. The boredom has faded. And the difficulties have become manageable.  But one of the biggest surprises of this journey has been the immense joy I’ve found in simplicity. 

It’s The Final Countdown….

10 DAYS TO GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!


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