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Building Brotherhood. Day 20 of Exodus 90: A Journey Toward Freedom and Brotherhood

Building Brotherhood.

Day 20 of Exodus 90: A Journey Toward Freedom and Brotherhood


Twenty days into Exodus 90 and I am beginning to realize that this journey is not just about self-discipline or sacrifice—it is about brotherhood. From the very beginning, when I committed to this challenge alongside the 11 men of our Whiskey Wednesday group, I knew that I wasn’t in this alone. However, I don’t think I fully understood the power of fraternity until now.

In these past three weeks, there have been moments of struggle—times when the cold showers felt unbearable, when cravings for comfort tried to break my resolve, and when prayer felt more like an obligation than an encounter with God. Yet, every time I’ve felt weak, I’ve been reminded that I have brothers walking this path with me just across the street and around the world.

One of the greatest blessings of this experience has been my anchor, Sean. His encouragement, accountability, text serving up Salmon Chowder recipes and honest conversations admitting that he snuck “six peanuts” on a day of fasting have helped me refocus and laugh when I’ve felt distracted. Sean isn’t just a partner in this challenge—he is a brother in faith, pushing me to become the man God is calling me to be. Whether it’s a quick check-in on the way to school, a shared reflection during our weekly coffee or a reminder of why we started, his presence has made all the difference.

Our fraternity is becoming more than just a group of men meeting once a week and participating in text banter back and forth—it is a source of strength, accountability, and transformation. Each one of us brings our own struggles and weaknesses, but together, we lift each other up. I can already see how these relationships will extend far beyond Exodus 90, shaping the way we lead our families, serve our communities, and pursue holiness.

As I reflect on Day 20, I am grateful—not just for the challenge, but for the brotherhood that makes the challenge possible. I look forward to the days ahead, knowing that whatever struggles may come, we will face them together.

And for all those out there reading this, Sean’s birthday is Monday.  And while his cake, booze, sweets and snack intake will probably be a bit more limited than normal this year, I do know he will probably get more texts, memes and well wishes from this group than ever before! Happy Birthday Buddy!


Only 70 more days to go.


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